Coincidence- Environment-Or Something Else?

Events in our lives can be attributed to many influences. Some are accidental, some are planned and some just happen for no reason at all. In this post, I would like to describe a very unusual situation that even I can not understand. After giving you a short description of this situation, I ask you to add your thoughts as to why this could happen.

“And now for the rest of the story”.

A very good friend of mine and I met at a rehearsal shortly after my wife and I relocated from Cedar Falls, Iowa to Branson, Missouri. His name is Kent Turner, a very successful property developer in Branson. We seemed to hit it off from the start as both he and I had the same interests in playing trumpet. We shared rehearsal time in the College of the Ozarks concert band helping our mutual friend in his ensemble. As time past we continued to perform together in local big bands, trumpet ensembles and shared trumpet chairs in combos in Branson. As we continued to rehearse and perform together we became even closer friends and when I decided to form a Dixieland band, Kent was my first choice for the part. That ensemble performed regularly at a local establishment and as we played each week, it became apparent that not only did we have the same playing style (I was playing Trombone at the time), our selection of notes were the same. Exactly the same. When Kent played lead, I played the same notes. When he changed to harmonic background notes, I played the same notes. We even took breaths and phrased at the same time. When we switch back and forth on melody we were in unison as were the times we played background figures. No matter what we did, we ended up playing in unison octaves. That was spooky. It was if we were connected to the same brain.

On our return trip to Texas, my wife and I made a list of similarities between Kent and myself. After compiling these similarities, it became obvious that something was very strange and that is why I decided to post this information and ask my readers to help with this interesting project listed below. Please read the instructions, mark your opinion and send your results to me so that I can form an educated view of these similarities.

Instructions-

Read the similarities, mark your reason for our unison thoughts and send  your results to me at this site in the comments section.

Similarities between subjects.

Example of PDF form

                                  Environment     Coincidence     Something Else

Music                                ___                     ___                     ___

Cured of Cancer             ___                     ___                     ___

Cured of Heart issues   ___                     ___                     ___

Hunter                            ___                     ___                     ___

Fisherman                      ___                     ___                     ___

Kids not interested

in music as carrier        ___                     ___                     ___

Musical family

background                    ___                     ___                     ___

Religious                        ___                     ___                     ___

Age                                  ___                     ___                     ___

Blonde wives                 ___                     ___                     ___

First marriage              ___                     ___                     ___

Three kids                    ___                     ___                     ___

Two boys/one girl       ___                     ___                     ___

Met wives in school    ___                     ___                     ___

Trumpet players          ___                     ___                     ___

Short hair pointers      ___                     ___                     ___

Archery                          ___                     ___                     ___

Jazz improvisers          ___                     ___                     ___

Good readers (music) ___                     ___                     ___

Love Dixieland music ___                     ___                     ___

Played in Big Bands    ___                     ___                     ___

Played in combos        ___                     ___                     ___

Fronted own bands    ___                     ___                     ___

Can’t use a checkbook ___                     ___                     ___

Sketch/painting art    ___                     ___                     ___

 

Form to use  Coincidence

Bruce was a member of the faculty at the University of Northern Iowa, School of Music in Cedar Falls from 1969 until his retirement in 1999. He has performed with many well-known entertainers such as Bob Hope, Jim Nabors, Roy Rogers and Dale Evans, Steve Lawrence and Eydie Gorme, Anita Bryant, Carman Cavalara, Victor Borgie, the Four Freshman, Blackstone the Magician, Bobby Vinton and John Davidson.